How do you know when you have gone as far as you can and when do you think that it is time to take the blinders off and hear the words you say and when the needs are no longer fantasy but a reality.
In ones life they are lucky to find one great love. Have one great family and one great life. How does a person come to grips with the truth that is is possible to love two people at one time and want the best from both.
Is it wrong to be committed to your family yet want the green pasture? YES
Can you control the wants and needs? YES
Should you spend the rest of your time justifying to others that you are normal and not a horrible person? NO
A friend who is a true friend will never ask more of you than you can truly be. They will grow with you hurt with you and love you regardless of your stupidity and your ability to make them feel better of themselves. They will stand by your side and shake there head but never say how stupid that you are being or tell you what you already know that the bottom is going to fall out from underneath you and you are going to be hurt. You can only learn that lesson through the experience of life.
So in living life's lessons remember that the past is the past the future is the future. Love comes and goes and sometimes comes twice at the same time. Remember to cherish the souls that through destiny are connected to your heart and treat them with love reverence and kindness because they are on your life path as a guide to help you grow and become the you that is meant to be.
Treat life as a gift not a right and treat love as what it is meant to be a gift from god that is to teach you tolerance forgiveness pride jealousy and all the good and bad associated with it. The love and lives that share your life lesson are the future of you and not the past. It is a designed to be and so shall it be.
In my life destiny I am blessed to be touched by many such friends, and through the pain of the past few months I am learning that while they don't always agree with my life, they love me and they will be there the day the bottom falls out,as I will be for them. There spirit and their hearts guide me through life's torments and at the end of the lesson they are standing on the other side with hands extended and words to calm and offer up hope.
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